How important is image? (13:7)
There is one who appears to be rich, but has nothing; another pretends to be poor but has great wealth.
Don’t be fooled by appearances—and do not pursue appearances.
The modern disease is borrowing money, so we can pretend to be rich and enhance our personal appearance of “success.” This is double danger. We spend in pursuit of a prestige that is false and therefore really unsatisfying. And then we must pay interest on our debt.
In contrast, almost everyone admires the wealthy—like a Warren Buffett—who deliberately live below their means. They’re no strangers to the life and life-struggles of the rich, but they understand the realities of the poor.
And yet, why would a wealthy person want to look less-than-wealthy?
There’s great merit in not flaunting our wealth. If we’re travelling in unknown territory, it’s certainly safer to keep a low profile; so when I travelled through Europe after graduation, I deliberately dressed down to blend in with the locals. Maybe the truly wealthy refuse to flaunt their wealth for the same reason. Maybe it’s only the many “wannabes” who are showing off their luxuries, deeply in debt for appearance of great wealth. They’re overspending just to impress others. It’s a sham.
Misers
This proverb can be read to mean that “the one” has no treasure in heaven, and “another” has great merit stored up in eternity. But the text also has concrete, practical application here on earth. Some under-spend in a sordid and tight-fisted manner, like Charles Dickens’ classic character, Ebenezer Scrooge. They spend far too little on themselves and hoard money, in the grip of an obsession. Such miserly behaviour exposes their lack of trust in God, injustice toward their family, and a sad poverty of charity toward the poor.
Such Scrooge-type obsessions do seem relatively rare—fortunately. So it’s more likely that the many modest wealthy simply hide their wealth well. So in Thomas Stanley’s book, The Millionaire Next Door, we learn that roughly 75 percent of millionaires purchase used cars.
The message: Don’t let yourself be fooled by appearances.
A Car or Prestige?
As a university student, I lived for a while in inner-city Detroit—a real education. I was amazed to see sparkling new Corvettes parked outside ramshackle dumps. I asked my hosts, whose cars were they? And sure enough, they belonged to the local residents. The mystery was, when those folks drove down the pot-holed street in their flashy sports cars, were they truly impressing their neighbors with themselves, their true worth? Or with a car that everybody knew was a just shiny soap-bubble, waiting to be popped by the finance company? Were they trying to impress their neighbors with their “courage” in piling up a debt that everybody knew they couldn’t pay? A used car would’ve got them from point A to point B, as well as the new Mercedes. But if they were buying prestige instead of transportation, surely all their neighbors knew they were living a lie. Was everybody cooperating in a lie? How sad! How unhappy for everybody!
- Memorize the text in your favourite Bible translation and think about it often.
- Evaluate your purchases to determine the “prestige” you are including in your buying. Buy functionality. Prestige and glamour are usually, if not always, a bad buy.
- Don’t let yourself be intimidated by another’s wealth. Don’t be afraid or envious of it.
- Don’t try to make others think you are wealthy.
Which of these steps, if any, does Jesus want you to take now? Ask Him.
Don’t be fooled by appearances—and do not pursue appearances.
The modern disease is borrowing money, so we can pretend to be rich and enhance our personal appearance of “success.” This is double danger. We spend in pursuit of a prestige that is false and therefore really unsatisfying. And then we must pay interest on our debt.
In contrast, almost everyone admires the wealthy—like a Warren Buffett—who deliberately live below their means. They’re no strangers to the life and life-struggles of the rich, but they understand the realities of the poor.
And yet, why would a wealthy person want to look less-than-wealthy?
There’s great merit in not flaunting our wealth. If we’re travelling in unknown territory, it’s certainly safer to keep a low profile; so when I travelled through Europe after graduation, I deliberately dressed down to blend in with the locals. Maybe the truly wealthy refuse to flaunt their wealth for the same reason. Maybe it’s only the many “wannabes” who are showing off their luxuries, deeply in debt for appearance of great wealth. They’re overspending just to impress others. It’s a sham.
Misers
This proverb can be read to mean that “the one” has no treasure in heaven, and “another” has great merit stored up in eternity. But the text also has concrete, practical application here on earth. Some under-spend in a sordid and tight-fisted manner, like Charles Dickens’ classic character, Ebenezer Scrooge. They spend far too little on themselves and hoard money, in the grip of an obsession. Such miserly behaviour exposes their lack of trust in God, injustice toward their family, and a sad poverty of charity toward the poor.
Such Scrooge-type obsessions do seem relatively rare—fortunately. So it’s more likely that the many modest wealthy simply hide their wealth well. So in Thomas Stanley’s book, The Millionaire Next Door, we learn that roughly 75 percent of millionaires purchase used cars.
The message: Don’t let yourself be fooled by appearances.
A Car or Prestige?
As a university student, I lived for a while in inner-city Detroit—a real education. I was amazed to see sparkling new Corvettes parked outside ramshackle dumps. I asked my hosts, whose cars were they? And sure enough, they belonged to the local residents. The mystery was, when those folks drove down the pot-holed street in their flashy sports cars, were they truly impressing their neighbors with themselves, their true worth? Or with a car that everybody knew was a just shiny soap-bubble, waiting to be popped by the finance company? Were they trying to impress their neighbors with their “courage” in piling up a debt that everybody knew they couldn’t pay? A used car would’ve got them from point A to point B, as well as the new Mercedes. But if they were buying prestige instead of transportation, surely all their neighbors knew they were living a lie. Was everybody cooperating in a lie? How sad! How unhappy for everybody!